Half Feminist

Welcome to all, I am SUBUHANI RAHMAN SHAHABUDEEN

Let's start from the beginning (i.e) definition of feminism

What is Feminism?

The advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the Gender.

In related To previous ages, Women came upon large struggles on their constraints which was put in front of and they overcame it.

What we Understood About Feminism?

Women are thinking that Feminism is Equal rights among everything with men.

Yeah we should Appreciate that but they had their additional mind thoughts for the meaning

If Men can Smoke, we can smoke too.

If Men can Drink, we can Drink too.

If Men have an affair we can have it too.

But they miserably failed by thinking that these are the equal rights they would get with these kinds of thoughts.

Because the above-mentioned things are to be avoided in society. But yet we try to prove our equality in those things.

Due to misunderstanding Feminism, we are killing our own culture for its sake.

Half Feminist:

Who is Half Feminist?

The simple and True answer you and me.

To the women and men who believe in equal rights and freedom to choose but still forces respectability politics onto children while simultaneously doing nothing to fight the systems that oppress them

Men The Half-Feminist:

He is the one who cooks up a lot about feminism and yet sometimes fails to abide by it in his life.

He gives advice to other men that provide some equal rights to women

They are like us they have their personal life too.

Leave her to live her life that she wanted to live.

His voice against harassment and discrimination against women is loud in the society but sometimes they fail to treat their own Sister/Cousins/Girlfriend/Wife in a proper way.

He becomes an abuser to his circle.

They are the complete opposite of what they speak in the society.

He controls his own Sister/Cousins/Girlfriend/Wife. (Tries to get into their private life & wants to know everything about it).

Simply trying to show that she is one step down to me.

Here we failed in proving feminism in our own self & yet we still want to be the good side of feminism so that the society would respect us.

You ask the question for yourself, Am I a good man? you will fail to answer that because you yourself know the mistakes that you have done.

There you go. You just found an Half-Feminist !!!!!!!

Women The Half-Feminist:

To the women who claim to be a part of this feminism, who have taken this responsibility irresponsibly.

To the women who think Feminism only protects other women who think the same.

To the women support  the teenage girls for exploring their sexuality instead of guiding them

Feminism that aims to liberate all women. Feminism that acknowledges our intersectionalities.

Women who wear dress inappropriate to show their flesh to the opposite sex means it’s feminism. Nope it’s not, we have to gain respect by doing responsible things and raise our voice against every improper action done upon women.

Feminism that has enough room at the table for all women to sit comfortably.

We do speak against the Men for rights but not allow your own gender to be equal with you in any cause it depends on their look and if they favour you.

Trying to prove your equality in unnecessary activities and not knowing what is the responsibility of women and men, and what is the point of gaining respect ?

Women who claim to be feminist but who do not understand what feminism is.

There you go. You just found an Half-Feminist !!!!!!!

What Needs to be changed?

First of all find unity among yourselves. Then Respect and Equal rights will knock at your door.

We are all part of Half Feminist society who we thinks that we are feminist at some of point of the life we could not to go the way we are thinking. At One time men failed to display and act his thought and sometimes Women do the same.

In current situations, We Men are the barriers for women, but we have to guard them from the unwanted and unrelated activity. But not to hold them from being unleashed and establish themselves in new and innovative things for their lifestyle and make way for them to succeed.

Both Men & Women must work together to fight correctly.

Both Men & Women must not play a part in the system that oppresses us.

Both Men & Women must check their actions constantly so that both can be a part of the solution.

Both Men & Women are the symptoms and perpetrators of the problem.

Let's do better. Reflect. Really try to gauge whether you're doing more harm than good.

Listen. Surround yourself with multiple perspectives - there is always more to learn.

Understand. There is more than one way to be a women.

Praise all women that do good. Not just the women you're comfortable with.

That's the time when we will truly attain the taste of feminism in our society.
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